November 2009 Archives

This thread in Melbourne's Age newspaper generated 23 pages of replies in less than 24 hours.

Hardly worth adding a reply after 23 pages - who is going to read it.

However, it does raise an issue I have noticed a lot lately - women and girls walking around the streets wearing nothing but a bikini. The weather has been warming up a lot in Melbourne recently so just after school time a lot of the kids head down the beach.

I just don't get walking 2km from home to beach in just a bikini. I have nothing against bikinis. I think the look lovely. But can't they throw a sun dress over them? I think it would look gross for a guy to be walking the streets wearing nothing but his speedos so this is not a sexist thing.

Last year I was enjoying a coffee at my local cafe on a warm weekday morning. This cafe happens to be just 50m from the beach. A rather attractive, well-endowed woman came in for a take away coffee with just a wrap around her waist and a brief bikini top. It would have looked great on the beach but I thought it was out of place inside the cafe.

Now if you've looked at any of the articles on this site you will now I like breasts. I like breast weather (like we are having at the moment) and I like it when all my breasted friends come out wearing their summer tops. I have nothing agains a t-shirt or top with lots of cleavage if that's what you like wearing. In my opinion it's quite nice.

But just a bikini top over a couple of DDs inside a cafe? Not my cup of tea at all.

Here is the second video on Bra fitting:

Having purchased bras for my partner for over thirty years, I know a little about finding the right size bra. But as size changes finding the right bra becomes more of a challenge.  Here are a couple of videos that give good advice. If you are buying a bra for your partner, this is good advice for you. They will give you some tips as to when you have the correct fit.

I am driving down towards the cafe and I see you in the distance. I notice the confident way you walk and that you are wearing shorts, t-shirt and boots. Quite trendy I think. As I we get closer I notice your t-shirt is actually quite a nice striped top. It has contrasting almost white and dark grey horizontal stripes. We are almost passing one another now as I realise the darker stripes are actually see-through and one of these goes across your braless nipples.

This counts as my thrill for the day. You must know that you have given many men a thrill today.

Then I think "Why does this matter so much? I have nipples. No one gets excited when they see my nipples. Why should we get so excited when we see yours? It that's what you want to wear and you like wearing it, why not. Why can't we just enjoy the sight much like we would have if we couldn't have seen through your top?" I don't have any answers for these questions but they often pop into my mind.