Breast Owner

This is a must read from Calendar Girl.

Calendar Girl has fairly and squarely put the challenge on the table for men and women. Let's get it straight. Women own their bodies including their breasts.

They have the right to be respected.

Breasts are both sexual and non-sexual objects. Sometimes in the same moment.

Women sometimes enjoy the sexuality of their breasts and sometimes don't. Sometimes both feelings are in the same moment.

We men (most of us at least) like or love breasts. If we are honest with ourselves we find them both sexual and non-sexual. Sometimes in the same moment. We love the softness and the shape of them. We love the way they remind us of comfort. We love the way our feelings are stirred by the sight of them.

But we are grown men. We can control our feelings. There are times to give expression to our feelings and there are times when we should respectfully keep them to ourselves. Many men are confused about this. These men need to learn. If they would take the time to enter into dialogue with women they would find out. And they would find the joy of being able to give expression without offense. They would find breast freedom. At least a degree of breast freedom.

Calendar girl tells what it is like for women. Breast freedom is hard for women as well. Without any objective measure of comparison, we could reasonably guess that breast freedom is much harder for women than for men.

But it can be found. At least a degree of breast freedom can be found. Many women, including Calendar Girl, it starts with a conscious decision to love your body. To enjoy your body. There is not a great deal women can do to stop some men from staring and this must be truly awful. But some men will look you in the eye and smile. If you smile back, knowing that they may have glanced at your chest but wanted at the same time to respectfully let you know they found you attractive, you will be letting them know there is another way. That smile will last longer in our memory and make us feel happier than the sight of your breasts.

Some women, such as the Breast of Canada models, experience the joy and freedom of being bare breasted in the company of others. This is perhaps the beginning of breast freedom for women. In saying "I enjoy my body and am proud of it for both its sexualness and its non sexualness."

It's hard to understand what it is like on the other side. But it is an absolutely wonderful experience trying.

Vive la différence.